Break away from the crowd

Perhaps, I am not like most people, but I do not understand the purpose of St. Patrick's Day. In theory, I know that we are celebrating the life of a Saint, but honestly, why does everyone drink themselves into oblivion simply because of the day? I enjoy having a few drinks with my friends and laughing at not-so-funny jokes just at much as the next person. I like being social and hanging out at get togethers. Yet, this day stresses me out beyond belief. 

Maybe it is just the college life that I'm not understanding. It's possible that in the real world, things are not like this. However, yesterday was probably the most drunk-filled day I have ever witnessed. Instead of joining in, I spent time with a few close friends inside the apartment. Sure, I walked down the street and said hi to a few random friends, but for the most part, I did not partake in any St. Patrick's Day festivities. Honestly, I am happy about it. I don't think that people should do things simply because everyone else is doing them. Life should be about making yourself happy, not making others happy. I feel much better that I did the type of things I enjoy. I laughed, I joked, I chatted, but mostly, I made myself feel safe. 

Now, I am not saying there is anything wrong with going out and having a good time. Far from that. More, I am saying that it's only okay if you are doing it for you. Every once in awhile, it is okay to break away form the crowd and do your own thing. Who cares if others don't understand? As long as you are happy, that's what really matters.